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Give me a “U” – guest blog by an Ultra Marathon cheerleader

Intro: Kelly is a Perfect Stranger. In fact, she and I were the founding members. I have run so many miles with this girl. I have cried a lot of tears. And laughed a lot of laughs. And she was an amazing cheerleader. Read her description of how the DWD 50K went from a cheerleader perspective.

I grew up a cheerleader. It’s in my blood. I have this passion for rooting on athletes in action. It’s my wheelhouse. And you know what? The cheering is a high for me…I know my words are going to the depths of these athletes’ souls when they need it most.

You know how I know this is true? I’m a runner. And when I run by a crowd cheering me on it gives me the extra push that I so desperately need to make it another step, another block, another mile, across the finish.

I believe all runners should be spectators/cheerleaders at least once in their lives. We know what we want to hear. So go out there and do it. Your friends will thank you. Heck, perfect strangers (pun intended) will thank you.

A few of my Perfect Stranger girls (Meggie, Meghan & Christi) ran the Dances With Dirt Ultra Marathon last weekend in Brown County State Park. I knew months ago that I just had to be there. To witness an Ultra, to witness my girls become Ultras, and to do what I do best: cheer the girls on!!!

The PS cheer team consisted of myself, Jake & Josh and by the end of the race people knew us. Let me start at the beginning. You’ve already read Meggie’s side of DWD (the grueling side), now I’ll let you in on the other side of DWD (the less grueling fun side).

We all woke bright and early Saturday morning: Jake to walk the dog, Christi & Meghan to shower (say what?!) and eat their bananas in peace, and me to get pumped up for a fun day. I was excited it was a big race day and I had no nerves, which is another great thing about being a cheerleader. As we were getting ready to leave the house the girls noted that they hadn’t seen any twitter or FB updates from the social media queen herself, Meggie. So they text her. No response. We knew something was strange about that. Few minutes later as we were in the car she called. She had overslept…and I’m sure you have already read Meggie’s recap and what ensued. The girls couldn’t wait for her arrival and start late, so we had to get pumped up and know that Meggie would get here soon and join them along the way. We had a plan. Now it was time to start this race.

 

Christi and Meg at the start!

As soon as the girls started their 50k trek through the forest, Jake and I headed back to the truck and popped open our first beers of the day. Christi’s friend John was there for the start but couldn’t handle the hair of the dog so early in the morning. Jake and I? We knew it was going to be a long day so we needed to carb up. Jake opened up the tailgate and the next hour passed quickly: we discussed John’s 36 hole golf tournament, Jake’s bear hunting stories, Jake attempted to teach a gal how to drive her friend’s manual transmission car (it took her 45 minutes to get out of first gear, no joke), and Jake told the first story of A.C. Slater’s silver lab heritage (I’m pretty sure he had to explain over 67 times what kind of dog he is).

We studied the course map and laid out all the places we could see the girls (don’t you even think for a second I hadn’t pre-planned our route and even emailed the race director a few times for best spots on the course!). Soon we decided it was time to go meet Meggie & Josh in town to escort them to Meghan & Christi’s first aid station to join in on the run.

We entered the state park and raced to what we thought was mile 6. After we got out and our giddy excitement was bursting, the gal that (finally) got her car out of first gear told us that we were at mile 12. Back in the car. Back on the road. We found mile 6. Meggie and I were using the facilities when we heard Jake’s booming voice yell, “Freeman!” I said, “Oh no, they’re here!” Meggie’s reply, “Naw, he does that…he’s just practicing.” Um, really? Jake yelled again and it was legit: the girls were here! We ran out of there to greet the girls and see all three of them off into the woods.

The cheer squad (aka myself, Jake & Josh) then meandered back to the cars where both boys opened up their tailgates to display their loot for the day: coolers full of beer, water, orange juice, vodka…I could go on…and donuts, chips, crackers and candy. Let’s just say we were set for the day. So we all made ourselves a drink and snapped a photo so we could be on record at DWD.

 

JD, Kel and Jake

After loading up the car (Slater rode shotgun, obv) we made our way to mile 9. As we waited we started seeing other runners for the first time (when we dropped Meggie off at mile 5 there weren’t any others around). We cheered them on, some stopped to take pics of Slater (one man kept making his buddy take his pic with Slater and then a little 4 year old girl kept snapping pics of him as well – AC became a local celeb, no lie), and we made friends with other spectators. Josh also took note of how much fun all the runners looked like they were having. He said this is so different from a road marathon, where everyone is so consumed by their time. Here they were stopping to eat, refill their fuel belts, laughing and carrying on conversations with us. He was right; this definitely had a different feel than most races. So relaxed. Soon the girls came through the forest smiling. Yay! They GU’d up, we snapped some pics and off their cute little tooshes went back into the woods. Spirits were high.

Next stop was mile 12 and this was the most beautiful stop along the course as it overlooked the entire park. We made more friends here (as did Slater), I got to know more about what Josh did for a living, we made yet more friends, and everyone got to play lookout for me while I peed in the woods (“Cover your cooch!” TMI? Whatevs.) I told Josh, “No one ever said I was classy!” And his response, “No one ever said you weren’t.” Love. Him. Already. We cheerleaders got to know each other better at this stop.

Soon the girls came out of the woods and they were ravenous. Christi couldn’t get enough of the blueberry glazed donut holes (“Who invented these things? They’re amazing! I need the recipe!”). We took lots of pictures with the beautiful back drop and off the girls went once again. I’m sure more happened at this stop but my memory is a tad hazy (beer + sun = haze).

Meg, Jake and Slater

best donuts ever

Onto the next. Mile 18 is where we set up camp next. We figured it’d take the girls about an hour and a half to get here from our last stop so we had some time to kill. We started seeing a lot of familiar faces from previous stops and we cheered every single one of them on. But the time kept ticking. No girls. I get a text from Christi saying she left the girls, felt badly, but really wanted to PR. Change of plans. Christi arrived out of the woods again with a smile on her face. She fueled up, hugged, and was back on her way. Shortly after, Meggie and Meghan came out of the trails drenched in sweat. Both girls doubled over. In between breaths they were saying how tight their sh*t was. Meggie admitted that she was just exhausted. I escorted them to the buffet of an aid station and they downed lots of fuel. Meghan grabbed a handful of M&Ms and was strategically planning out her bites (“It’s a game and a snack!”) and I couldn’t stop snapping pictures of how intimate this stop was for the girls. Both of their men were taking care of them, talking them through it, tending their needs. Was so sweet. But they still had a ways to go. I laughed because Meggie got back on the trail and said, “Guess I should actually run since people are watching!” And they were gone.

aid station

We studied the map and realized we could super-stealth-like surprise the girls at mile 20. Jake pulled off onto the side of the street, pumped up the jam and had a little tailgate party. Within a minute of us arriving, Christi popped up and out of the woods. She said the last 2 mile stretch was straight uphill and treacherous. And if Christi says it’s tough, then it’s going to be a doozy! She did a quick change of socks and went on her way. Jake wanted to pump the girls up, so he had me turn the music up louder so they could hear it in the woods (I’m sure other people in the park just loved us). Before we knew it a man that we say at the 19 mile stop came up out of the woods and told us he was done. Asked us to take him back. He couldn’t finish. Not on my watch, buddy. I filled his water, gave him cookies, talked him through his pain, and asked about his training. Told him he could and would do this. He sat there while our gals came out of the woods dancing and giving us curious glances about the man in the neon top and old school glasses. I asked the girls to keep an eye on him out on the trails after he walked back onto the course. The next thing I knew there was a dance party and Meggie & Meghan were dropping it like it was hot. They still had spunk in them and I couldn’t stop smiling. So darn proud of them at that moment, that they were still having fun. Those are my girls.

Next stop: mile 21. Slater made more friends, we all did more cheering, same story, different mile marker. Christi arrived and quickly ate more food. Pretty sure she didn’t stop very long before she got back to it. She was focused and kept telling me every stop how many people she passed. That’s her game: she focuses on someone and then passes them. It’s how she makes herself keep going. She’s a strong one, Christi.

By now we could tell the girls’ pace had slowed down quite a bit but were more excited than ever to see them. I camped out at the top of a hill with my camera perched waiting. As soon as I saw them I could see it in their eyes. They were tired. But I kept screaming anyway. They had to know just how proud of them I was. So naturally I had to scream from the top of my lungs, “Meggie & Megahn – YOU’RE DOING IT!!! Go on for it girls!” They made their way to the aid station and ate PB&Js and fig newtons and M&Ms and Gus. Meggie looked up and saw the massive watch tower and said she remembered that from being in the park before…then asked if we were going to climb it. Think she started become slap happy at this point. Meghan asked for a beer (as did many of the runners as they passed) and chased her GU with a cold lager. Why wouldn’t you? We saw a handful of horses that were awaiting a trial ride and Meggie asked if she could borrow one to get to the finish. We laughed. The horse people did not. Off they went.

 

beer + gu

The cheer squad headed on to our final cheer point and set up our now infamous tailgate. Runners were tired. Haggard. Run down. Out of gas. Heck, even Slater took a nap at this stop! Every one of the runners thought we were a bonafide aid station and asked for water. So then we just started handing it out, filling water bottles, passing out salty crackers, sweet cookies and even Aleve. Christi passes through and says it’s hard, she just climbed stairs from hell, but she’s going to keep powering through. Then we get a text that Meggie and Meghan are lost. Got off course. All they knew is that they were on a horse trail. We studied maps and looked for said trails to no avail. Meggie couldn’t get a signal to get onto her map app so we told her to use her compass. Based on the last checkpoint and the one we were standing at all we could tell her was to turn around and head southwest. Talk about scary. But Josh handled it so calmly and patiently I admired their communication in such a time of duress.

 

cutest dog ever

After getting the girls back on course I realized I couldn’t hang out at that station much longer, as I’d miss Christi cross the finish line. And let’s be serious here, no one should ever cross a finish line without a supporter there. So if you have a friend or family member in a race (of any distance or kind – bike, swim, run) make sure you are either on the course or at the finish. It means the world to know someone is there for you. Anyway, I got into Josh’s truck and raced to the finish line. I couldn’t miss her. Girl had just run 31 miles. I ran to the finish and realized I had a few minutes to spare. And then realized I was watching all of the runners finish that I’d been cheering on the entire day. It was an incredible finish to watch; very emotional for everyone. And then I saw her: all black with her blonde braid bouncing along. She made it. I yelled and yelled and yelled. Christi was semi smiling, semi choked up. I know the face well. I was beaming for my friend who just killed her second Ultra. What an inspiration.

We hugged, we cried, we recapped her last few miles (rivers and mud slides and bears oh my!). Got her all cleaned up and back to the finish line we went to await the rest of our Perfect Strangers to cross the finish. During this time a gal came up to me and thanked me for all my words of encouragement along the course…how much it meant to her that I kept telling her she could do it and that she was doing it. Now that? That’s why I cheer.

Soon we saw the two beauties in black & camo running towards us. They made it. And that’s when I couldn’t stop my tears. It’s hard to yell and cry at the same time, but I did. You know why? Because those girls just finished their very first Ultra marathon and were smiling. Again, these girls continue to inspire me.

I remember Meggie cracking a joke as she finished and was awarded her age group medal (read: bone)…something about her being a Kenyan. And wouldn’t you know it, she had everyone laughing. True to Meggie style, she found humor in her pain. It’s what she does best. She knows we all hurt as much as she does and yet she finds light in it. Makes us all laugh when we want to cry. Integral part of our group, that Meggie.

Kelly and the girls

I cheered on Ultra marathoners for 10 hours on Saturday with two guys that were near-strangers to me. I can now call both Josh & Jake my friends. And I can call my three girls Ultra Marathoners. Now that’s something to cheer for!

 

Aby’s story – 50 lbs lost!!

I met Aby through our husbands who are fraternity brothers. And since then, have been completely inspired by her. She took life by the reigns in 2011 and not only became a runner, but lost 50 pounds in the process. You want to run and are scared you can’t? Read this. You want to lose weight but don’t know where to start? Read this. She did it. She owns it. She’s amazing.

Like you, it started here.  See Meggie Run.  I found Meggie’s journey amazing, inspiring and totally relatable.  Like Meggie, I’ve never been a runner.  I played volleyball in high school and running was used for conditioning and punishment.  I have hated running my whole life because I equated it to failure, loss and disappointment.  I remember reading one of Meggie’s blog entries and someone responded that they had done a Couch to 5k program.  The title itself intrigued me so I started researching and contemplating “Could I do this too?”  Of course, there was a loud, annoying voice that quickly turned that thought into “Don’t kid yourself.  You’ve never been able to run.  You’re too fat to run. You’ll just give up anyway. “

This time though, I kept thinking and I kept researching.  I kept reading blogs and other people’s journeys into running and weight loss.  I think the final straw was a complete melt down while shopping for jeans in October 2010.  I had had more than enough and was tired of complaining about it! Something HAD to change.  I have struggled with my weight all my life and have tried everything under the sun to get it under control and be happy with my body.  Well, almost everything.  The fear of failure and discomfort and burning lungs had always kept me away from running.

When I had my meltdown over buying big girl jeans, I decided to join Weight Watchers.  I knew I had to get my eating and portion sizes under control.  I have done this program so many times and have been somewhat successful each time.  But this time around, I am a machine. I have been on an amazing upward spiral and it isn’t just because of Weight Watchers. It’s because I became a runner. The more I run, the more weight I lose.  The more I lose, the more I run.  I am changing my life and it feels incredible!!

Aby before (in the middle)

That Couch to 5k thing keep creeping up.  I was losing weight without much physical exertion, but I knew it would soon stall.  This contemplation and questioning went on for weeks! I finally went to www.coolrunnings.com and printed out the Couch to 5k program.  I talked with my husband—who is a serious runner—and he was excited and supportive.  His confidence in me was genuine, but I had a hard time believing this could be done.  The next step is what I think took me from “trying” to DONE.  I signed up for a 5k that was near the end of the 9-week training program and then I told EVERYONE I knew that I was going to do this.  I knew that by making this public people would be asking me about it and how the training was going.  I have let myself down countless times, but the thought of admitting to friends and family that I gave up, well, that’s just not going to happen.  If I announce that I’m going to do something, there’s no way it won’t be done!

I ran my first 5k on June 18th 2011.  I enlisted the support of two amazing friends that also ran with me.  One was training for a half marathon and the other was doing her first 5k as well.  It’s amazing what friends will do for you when you ask.  It’s amazing what they want to do for themselves and just didn’t know you’d be willing to join them.  Now, I didn’t break any records but I did it.  I ran the whole time and I felt that overwhelming sense of achievement that I had never felt before.  I was proud, but I knew it could be better.  I had lost about 25 pounds at this point, but my focus had shifted.  I was no longer running to lose weight.  I was learning to run and slowly falling in love.  Now, please don’t get me wrong….I was not singing and gliding along like a gazelle with rainbows and butterflies.  There were lots of tears, doubt, frustration and pain.  I kept asking my husband if my knees would ever stop aching and if the side cramps would eventually stop.  He just calmly and confidently encouraged me to keep going—it will get better.

I can’t promise you that you’ll have the same experience, but I do know that if you are at your breaking point or if you are so ready to make a change in your life that you’re willing to face your fears head on, let yourself and others hold you accountable and put in the time and effort–you can do anything.

After my first 5k I kept putting one foot in front of the other.  I signed up for the Marathon Relay at Ft. Ben on October 15th 2011.  I had participated in this race before and it was terrible.  Out of the 6.55 miles I was to run, I probably only ran 2 total.  I hated it.  This time, I wanted to do it right! Again, I told everyone what I was going to do and got signed up.  I ran all 6.55 miles and most of those miles were into the wind.  I was able to enjoy the scenery rather than worry about any aches or pains.  I wasn’t self-conscious about how my legs jiggle in my running pants.  I didn’t care!! I was running and loving it! I completed my leg of the race in a little over 1 hour and 10 minutes.  I stopped and literally had to say out loud, “I just ran half of a half marathon, without stopping.”  Again, like a drug addict, I wanted more.

Aby 50 lbs. lighter - and in an awesome Christmas sweater

On Christmas Eve I reached my goal of losing 50 pounds.  I have always had it there to lose, but never the commitment, patience and drive to get it done.  More importantly, I run.  I run at least 3 days a week because it feels good, I enjoy it, it works and I can! I have also signed up for my first half marathon.  The 2012 Indianapolis Mini-Marathon.  You can tell everyone that too—I will! If I say I will do it….consider it DONE!

Guest blog – Christi does 50K “Dashing through the mud”

Who better to recap the HUFF 50K than my good friend and fellow Perfect Stranger, Christ, who ran the entire thing. Read on, folks. This is good.

Will this be an ultra awesome experience?   Or will this experience prove that I am ultra stupid??   Or perhaps I am just certifiably insane???- All questions that have run through my mind multiple times since last September when I decided to sign up for The Huff 50K Ultra Marathon.  I am always up for a new adventure and a new challenge. And this seemed like as good of an idea as any (because 26.2 wasn’t far enough? ? I never said everything I did made sense.), it was only 5 more miles than the full marathons I have become accustomed to running, and, on top of it, I convinced my friend Meggie to run it with me. Strength in numbers.  So what if the race was in December in Northern Indiana, how bad could it really be, right??

A few weeks after Meggie and I signed up for this adventure, she unfortunately became injured.  As the weeks went by, it seemed more than likely that she would not be able to run the whole thing with me.  But being the amazing friend and running buddy that she is, she was determined not to leave me to tackle this beast alone.  Thankfully, she was able to recruit 2 other Perfect Strangers (Karen and Bri) to run the 50K as a relay with her.  (Read her blog about The Huff at www.seemeggierun.com )

An Ultra Marathon, for those unfamiliar with the term, entails running any distance longer than a traditional marathon (26.2 miles or 42 kilometers). Most of these races take place on nontraditional surfaces, such as trails or dirt roads. (Thank you Bri for including this definition in her blog about The Huff. Read her experience here: www.nursewithapurseblog.com).  Our particular Ultra was to be held at Chain O’ Lakes State Park in Albion, Indiana.

According to The Huff website, it seemed as if the 3 person relay teams and the 50K individual participants would run the same 10+ mile loop, relay participants doing one loop each, while the 50K participants would run the loop 3x.  This would enable me to have a Perfect Strangers running buddy the entire race.  Brilliant!! That couldn’t have worked out better.  I was excited.  Yes, this would be the longest race I’ve ever done, yes it was on a trail and I have never done a trail race (except for the Warrior Dash, which in comparison to this was a day at Disneyland), yes it was going to be cold, but I would have my girls.  That was all I needed.  All was right with the world… or so I thought.

A few weeks before the race, we received an email that clearly stated the course this year would be different.  The relay teams would be running on a completely different 10+ mile loop, and the 50k participants would have their own 15+ mile loop to run 2x.  Upon realizing that I no longer could rely on my Perfect Strangers support team while tackling the 50k, I became deflated.  But it was too late to turn back.  Once I set my mind on something, I am determined to see it through.  The Huff Ultra was going to be mine.  Just knowing that my girls would be there at the same race, even if we couldn’t run together, was comforting.

The adventure officially started on Friday December 16 at 4pm when Meggie and Karen picked me up.  We were finally on our way.  Next stop: pick up Bri in Muncie, then head North to pick up our packets at the race site, find something decent for dinner, and hit the sack for some much needed pre-race rest.

The car ride was a blast.  We laughed about everything under the sun.  We were like a traveling comedy show.  I’m literally shocked we haven’t been asked to do a reality TV series, The Real Perfect Strangers, yet.   I couldn’t have been more thankful to have been sitting in that car with those three women who voluntarily decided to tackle this race with me.  They didn’t have to do it, I was aware of that, but I was so grateful that they decided to.  I am so lucky to have such amazing friends.

For those not privileged to have been on that car ride with us, here are is an insight into some of our discussions:  Reindeer are real.  Kenny G’s Sleigh Ride can sound oddly creepy when driving through the Indiana countryside in the dark. When it is dark outside, you need to turn your car lights on.

Pulling up to packet pickup, we were already aware that this would be a different sort of race experience from start to finish, but it quickly became more apparent than ever how different it really would be.  This “lodge” of sorts was out in BFE.  It had been miles since we had seen any sign of civilization.  This was the epitome of ‘over the river and through the woods’.  Literally drove through a river to reach this place.  Thank goodness for our iPhones and the GPS app, or we would have never known to turn “the way of left” to find this place.

Christi picking up her packet

We stuck out like sore thumbs at the “expo” (as we referred to it, in very much a joking manner).  The “expo” consisted of one 8’ folding table where you could pick up your race number and t-shirt.  The rest of the room was filled with bearded Ultra runners enjoying their pre-race pasta dinners.

We laughed, took a few photos of the mounted deer on the wall in the “expo” hall and continued on our way.  After a beer and some food at the local Applebee’s, we settled in for our ‘long winter’s nap’ at the Best Western, Kendallville.

RACE DAY.

My alarm went off at 5:20 am.  I have a very particular routine on race day mornings.  I shower (yes, I shower and dry my hair every time before going out and running a race, whether it’s a 5k or a bazillion miles.  I never said everything I did made sense.) .  I tiptoed around the dark hotel room trying to make the least amount of noise as possible, as the other ladies were still sleeping.  Somehow, though, I was the loudest person on the planet that morning, and I really appreciate the ladies for not complaining that I woke them up before necessary.

We got dressed in our multiple layers and ate some breakfast in the hotel lobby.  There were several other runners staying in our hotel.  They were easy to identify.  Beards, trail shoes, Camelbak’s, long hair (one man we saw had hair that would rival mine in a long-hair contest), and a sparkle in their eyes, excited for what was about to commence. We loaded up the car and headed out with our dear friend, Kenny G, playing Sleigh Ride, right on cue as we drove away from the Best Western.

A few weeks prior to The Huff, I was searching Twitter and Facebook, trying to find someone else who was running the 50k individual, as I was.  I needed advice.  I needed encouragement from someone who had done this before.  At some point, I stumbled upon Jon on Twitter who was also doing The Huff.  It was going to be his 2nd Ultra.  We decided to run the race together.  The company on the long, muddy route proved to be a necessity in order to keep my sanity and from completely losing it and breaking down in the middle of a knee-deep mud pit.

Christi & Jon

(The night before, on the car ride to the, “expo,” Meggie, Karen and Bri decided to change their relay registration to the 1 loop “fun run” so they could run together.  That was the best decision they made.  They had a great time running the 10+ miles together.  I am extremely glad they had fun in the mud, and I am a bit jealous that they even had a dance party in the middle of a mud puddle halfway through the race.  They also trotted along for a ways with Kenny G, blaring from Meggie’s cell phone.  Those are my girls.  Proud of them for tackling the mud, water and cold with style and a certain “badassness” that no one I know can rival.  I mean, I am pretty shocked that all of the Perfect Strangers haven’t been made into action figures yet. )

I was nervous standing there waiting to start.  The girls hugged me, and we started out.  50k individuals to the right, relay and one loop participants, straight ahead.  The first few miles went quickly.  It was crowded because the runners hadn’t quite spread out yet.  During mile 2 was the first glimpse of standing water.  I could see runners trying to delicately maneuver over and around this water in hopes of keeping their shoes dry.  31 miles is quite a ways to run in wet shoes, so it made sense to stay dry, right?  One guy came barreling up from behind me yelling “It’s an Ultra!  Just go for it!”  And he jumped right in the water and took off down the trail. The trails became pretty muddy after that.  It seemed doable though.  “It’s a trail run, of course there is going to be dirt, some mud and maybe a bit of water,” I told myself. “I’m tough, I can handle this.” So, on we went.

By mile 5 the mud had gotten worse.  To avoid the really bad mud pits, runners were making alternative trails through the brush and trees.  By mile 7 I looked down and blood was caked on my ankles.  I was scratched from all the thorns on these alternative routes around the mud.

Shortly after this, was the first real water test.  I stood there for a split second looking at it.  Who put a lake in the middle of the trail?? I wondered if it was worth it to try and find a way around, but then a Robert Frost quote popped in my mind. “The only way around is through.”  I said “I’m not F-ing around!” and marched right into the water, thigh deep.  This race just got real.

Holy mud.

Frozen, with, ice blocks as feet, we continued forward.  And there it was.  Like a mirage in the desert, an aid station.  Most road races have aid stations with water and/or Gatorade, etc. about every 1.5-2 miles.  We had been out on the trails for what seemed like half my lifetime before spotting the first aid station.  The volunteers had set up a buffet feast of bananas, doughnuts, pretzels, potato chips, water, hot cocoa and FIG NEWTONS.  I had never, ever been so excited about a Fig Newton before.  It was like a little piece of heaven out in the swamp we were trudging through.  The volunteers at each aid station were very kind and did a fantastic job of stocking the snacks, and helping each and every runner that came through.

As we came closer to the start/finish (halfway point before embarking on the loop for the 2nd time), I looked up and thought I was imagining things.  Is that Meghan?  It couldn’t be.  Really?  Is it?  She came all this way to support us running today??  Unbelievable! It is her!  We embraced.  She was all smiles, I needed that surprise and warm hug to give me the confidence to keep on going. I hugged her at least 7 times.  I filled her in quickly on how the first half was.  “Tough,” I said.  Brutal.” She commented on my bloody ankles and my soaked and muddy shoes.  I wanted to talk longer.  I asked for an update on the girls running the 10mi loop.  They had finished not too long before I got there, but were at the car changing. She told me to keep going, that they all would hopefully see me at some point again during the race.  We made it to the halfway point in 3 hours and 10 minutes.  Pretty close to being on my goal pace.  Could we break 6 hours??  The thought danced in my head and played with my mind.  If the 2nd lap treated us about the same, I was certain we could.

Just as we were setting out on the trail for the 2nd half, I heard the other girls screaming and running down the hill.  They asked me how I was, I yelled back my response: “Cold!” “Wet!” “I’m bleeding!”  But I was halfway done.  Almost an Ultra Marathoner.  Nothing was going to stop me now.  Though little did I know 3-4 miles later I seriously was about to consider throwing in the towel.

Immediately we could tell that the trail was going to be worse the second time around.  We didn’t remember the 6” of mud from the very beginning.  We didn’t recall slipping and sliding and becoming stuck in muck and water this soon into the race.  The trail had gotten worse.   And by worse, I mean the most horrible conditions ever had been amplified 10x.  By worse, I mean the mud had become so debilitating, I was certain we wouldn’t finish by dark, which was the race cut off time.  By worse, I mean we were going some of those miles at a 20 minute pace.

Now, I am not the fastest runner ever, but going almost 2.5x slower than my normal marathon pace was frustrating to say the least.  Between miles 16 and 22, I no longer felt like we were in a race.  It was a survival game. A game that I was certain I was about to lose or forfeit. If we weren’t going to finish by dark, why keep going?  I cried.  Hot tears rolled down my face.  I may have been the only one standing out in the woods at this Ultra Marathon crying into a mud pit.  What if I wasn’t as tough as I thought?  I said out loud “I want to quit”, but immediately followed that statement by saying “I am not a quitter.” A tough looking man came plodding along past us, and he said, “Your only goals at this point are to not lose your shoes in the mud and to keep upright.  Good luck!” He continued on and so did we.

A few LONG miles later, we crossed a road where some volunteers were standing.  They looked at me, and I am sure they could see the agony written all over my face.  They said that the worst was behind us.  They said that they heard the last half of the 2nd loop wasn’t as bad.  I didn’t know whether to believe them or cry again.  But they were telling the truth.  We finally made it to some areas where we could run again. We were RUNNING!  I couldn’t believe it.  Was the worst really behind us?  We were running.  And off in the distance I heard screaming echoing across the lake.  I turned to Jon and I said, “I bet you anything that screaming you keep hearing is my friends.”  It was the most beautiful sound I had ever heard.  I knew they were there, and I knew I would see them sooner or later.

A few miles later, my hypothesis was proven correct.  My friends were yelling, I could hear Meghan’s boyfriend, Jake, yelling my name at least a half mile before I saw them.  And then, as we came out of the trees, at mile 29 to cross another road, there they were.  Jamming to some old school rap, dancing in the street and jumping up and down screaming for me.  I ran straight over to them for the best group hug EVER.  They asked how I was. I didn’t even know how to answer, though I tried to explain in a very few words how unbelievably fierce the conditions out there were.  I had 2 miles left.  They would be at the finish.  Time to make The Huff mine.

As we neared the finish line, there they were again, Meghan, Bri, Meggie, Karen and Jake, standing on a wooden fence, cheering for all the runners as they passed by.  They ran over to the finish line and started taking photos as I neared the timing mats.  As soon as I crossed the line, I was enveloped in their hugs.  I cried.  I did it.  What a great feeling.  The mud and muck and water and coldness were instantly a distant memory.  I did what I set out to do.

They helped me out of my muddy shoes, I changed quickly into dry clothing, and we were off, back towards civilization, leaving the mud behind.  My gold medal (Which also doubled as a belt buckle…do you really think I would have gone through all of that for a regular race medal??) hung around my neck the whole way home.  I told the story as best I could to the girls as we drove, but there really are no words to describe the insanity of the mud and water or the range of emotions that I felt that day.  Even as I sit here, 5 pages into this, I feel like I haven’t even come close to giving this experience justice.

ultramarathoner

I do now understand why Ultra Marathoners have the stereotype of having a few screws loose.  I get it.

Was I ultra stupid for doing this?  No.  It was a challenge.  It made me stronger.

Was it an ultra awesome experience??  Yes.  I bonded with my girls and I learned a lot about myself.  I met a new friend and became a part of an elite community.

Am I certifiably insane??? The verdict is still out.  Because I am already planning on when I will run my next Ultra Marathon.

Two roads diverged in a wood, and I — I took the one less traveled by, and that has made all the difference.”- Robert Frost

Guest blog: Indianapolis Women’s Half Marathon

Last Saturday, my running girls ran a 1/2 marathon. I was in Mexico, sipping fruity cocktails in the pool, and yet was jealous. My friends were accomplishing a race together. I hated to miss it. Bri blogged about her experience here. And during our 10-mile run last night, Christi offered to write up a guest blog about her race. Read on my friends…

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My alarm went off at 4:30am, and as I reached over to turn it off, the question of “Why do you do this to yourself, Christi??” echoed in my head, just like it has on many other Saturdays in the past. I briefly considered rolling over and going back to sleep, but knew I wouldn’t.  I have peeled myself out of bed before dawn almost every Saturday all summer, and therefore I knew I would get up.  It was that time again– time to go running. Today was the inaugural Indianapolis Women’s Half Marathon.

I have run 16 previous half marathons.  The 13.1 distance is my race, PR-ing at a 1:47:52, and breaking 2 hours every half marathon on my resume for the past 3 years.  This summer, however, has been a little bit different.  Coming off an IT band injury in the spring, I had to miss the 500 Festival Mini Marathon (which broke my heart).  Therefore, my first race of the year was the Carmel Half Marathon in June.  That one was slow going for me, completing it in over 2 hours and 12 minutes, which made me all the more nervous for this Indianapolis Women’s Half.  I wanted desperately to prove that my training, physical therapy and dedication had gotten me back to my “pre-injury” status in half marathons.  As I got ready that morning, I knew only time would tell.

The humidity was not a variable that we had on our side, I realized, as I drove downtown to meet up with some of my friends (members of the “Perfect Strangers,” the amazing group of women that I have been training with all summer.)  It was at about 80% at 6am.  It didn’t calm my nerves, but something I was used to, considering several previous weeks we had run in 98-100% humidity, and for longer distances.

Bri, Meg, Christi & Amy = Perfect Strangers

The start line was not crowded, as there were only about 2,100 people registered for the 5K and half marathon.  Up front near the start, I noticed the elite runners warming up, and about 30 feet behind them, the rest of the participants started filing in.  There were no corrals, no signs suggesting where each participant should line up depending on desired pace/mile. Looking around I realized there was a hodgepodge of skill levels, with even some “fanny-pack ladies” positioning themselves to start directly behind the elite runners. (Fanny-pack ladies (n): ladies who will walk 5-7 people wide through the entire 13.1 miles, making it difficult for runners to pass them, talking and enjoying their “stroll” and, of course, wearing fanny packs).  I quickly decided that I needed to move around these said ladies, which would put myself in a starting position behind the elites as well (talk about a little “buzz kill” lining up behind women who are sure to run 5min miles the entire race). I said goodbye and good luck to my fellow “Perfect Strangers” and made my way forward.  “Oh well,” I thought. “ I’d rather eat their dust than try and maneuver around the ‘fanny-pack ladie’ the entire first mile.”

And eat dust I did.  I watched the elite runners take off at a speed that I would only ever be able to consider for a 100 meter sprint.  The first mile felt OK, though I knew I had started out a little too fast.  By mile 4 I wondered if this was actually the day I would die.  I knew if all else failed, however, I could begin walking and wait for my friends to catch, and then join them for the rest of the race, which for about a half mile seemed like something to consider. I was wishing for the support and encouragement from my friends, the same support that had gotten me through some rough training runs earlier in the summer.

Mile 5-8 were easier, and I knew I had finally run through the “wall.”  I begin thinking that I could break 2 hours this race, and I was anxious to see if I could actually pull it off.  As we ran for what seemed like a decade on 38th street, the sun, the heat and the humidity started to get to me.  By mile 9 I took a 2 minute walking break.  By mile 10.5 I knew my “under 2 hour” time goal was no longer realistic, but I kept pushing.  All the way down Delaware Street, running directly into the sun, I was doing math.  I needed to average “X” minutes per mile to still beat 2 hours, “X” minutes per mile to beat 2 hours 5 minutes, and so on.  Maybe doing math without a pencil and paper or calculator is a strategy I need to adopt in future races, because the time went by fast, and I didn’t even notice the pain that started returning in my right knee.

Turning on to Market Street, I could see ahead of me the 13th mile marker, and just beyond that, (.1 miles beyond that, to be exact), I could see the finish line. I took off.  I finished strong and felt good about it, with a 2:03:34.  While I didn’t break 2 hours, I did take 9 minutes back off my half marathon time from June, which seemed to me to be a positive step in recovering from the injury and to getting my stride back.  That felt good.  

This made it all worth it…

But, the most exciting part about the finish???  Knowing that very shortly I would be meeting up with my “Perfect Strangers” girls and heading over to Kilroy’s for breadsticks and beer to celebrate with each other, something we had been admittedly talking about and lusting over all week long. I quickly came up with the answers to that question I ask myself in the darkness of pre-dawn every Saturday morning when I get up to run…”Why do I do this to myself???”  The answer?  For the adrenaline rush, and to stay in shape, and the runner’s high, and because I am competitive with myself, and for the camaraderie all runners share, and because I love my “Perfect Strangers” running group, and because I like pizza.  And breadsticks.  And cheeseburgers.  And beer.  And cupcakes.  And pasta.  And……

New guest blog series @lesalina.com

Two weeks ago I went on a blind date with Leslie. We’ve been Twitter friends for quite some time but we took our relationship to a new level by meeting for cocktails. She introduced me to a new drink. And then to her dad. It was a lovely time and I can’t wait for us to do it again soon.

She asked me to be a guest blogger on her very successful blog The Adventures of Lesalina. Leslie is doing her first 5K soon and wants me to contribute some advice for beginning runners. You fall in love with Leslie with each of her posts so I am honored to be a part of it.

Check out my first guest blog here.

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New developments

There have been some new developments in my life. And I would like to tell you about them.

Read on, por favor.

1) I started speaking Spanish. (See above)

2) I had the opportunity to write a guest blog for Pretty Indy. I met a Twitter friend for coffee. He told me about how he is a guest blogger for them. I wanted to be one. He introduced me. Boom. I was in. Here is the post: Running on the Go. I hope it won’t be the last!

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3) A friend of mine, Pete the Planner, and I started a new project. It’s called The Sussy Project. And I am so excited about it! I am a big believer in sussies. I give them a lot and when we started to iron out the details of this new adventure, we both geeked out a bit about how cool this could become. Please check out the site. (Our first official sussy happened last week, post to follow this week.) Follow us on Twitter. And nominate someone as a recipient!!!

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4) Lastly, I was selected as an Ambassador for Wheaties Fuel! Yep…you heard that right. I am going to be sponsored by Wheaties. What’s that mean? I am not 100% sure. (No, mom, I am not going to be on the box.) But to be selected, you have to participate in multiple endurance races a year and have a decent online presence. In return, they will send me free gear. And lots of samples to pass out. And who knows what else? The only catch is that I can’t be sponsored by any other cereal. It’s a bummer that I will have to send rejection letters to Cinnamon Toast Crunch and Coco Puffs…but such is life.

That’s all I’ve got. What’s new in your worlds?

Running with Kenyans

Meet my guest blogger, Suzanne. I am honored to be her friend. She’s one of the smartest, nicest, most carefree, outgoing individuals I know and is an amazing runner. She has more stories and adventures in her young life than most people could dream of. This one gave me chills.

I have run many races before, even a few against Kenyans (though they usually finish hours ahead of me.) I did not expect that in traveling to Kenya to work with the Umoja Project, I would find myself competing in a Kenyan track meet. But yes, I recently had my international running debut.

The Umoja Project builds partnerships with schools, guardians, congregations and community organizations in western Kenya to support the needs of orphans and vulnerable children. On our recent trip, we spent much time traveling to rural areas, visiting schools and talking to the students and teachers.  At the end of week three, we set out on our final visit to Barandingo Primary School to see their new poultry project, vegetable garden and fuel efficient cook stove used to provide a school lunch program. As soon as we pulled up we saw crowds of students cheering wildly – it was clear this was no ordinary school day. It was athletics day and students from three neighboring schools had come to compete in track and field events. A track had been carved in the dirt in front of the school and parents, guardians and students crowded the sidelines cheering on the runners. It must have been obvious that I was showing much more interest in watching the competition than in the chicks, veggies and stoves so Leonard, the Umoja link teacher, asked if I would race with the students. I immediately shook my head and said no acting as if that was a silly idea, but secretly was dying to join in.

Leonard saw right through my bluff and went to arrange a spot for me in the next race. The next and final race turned out to be the 4x100m relay for the class 8 girls, but I was without a team. It did not take long for him to round up three other guardians to complete my team and we were ready to go.

Pre-Race coaching

I was running the fourth leg so I found my place on the track, tightened up my shoelaces and waited eagerly for my new teammate to round the curve and pass me the baton. I felt a bit unprepared as I was wearing a calf link skirt and street shoes, but no one else in the race was even wearing shoes so I knew I could not use that as an excuse for a poor performance.

my competition

The class 8 girls turned out to be stiff competition and by the time the baton was passed to me, the other teams had almost finished. Victory was out of the question, but this was my first race in Kenya and nothing would deter me from completing the final leg of the relay. The crowd had moved in along the track and erupted in laughter as I dashed by. At the end I was swarmed with students yelling “mzungu, mzungu,” the common Swahili term for white person.

Finishing strong to laughter and cheers of “Mzungu!”

I may not have impressed them with my athletic prowess, but I think they enjoyed the show. Though I still remain winless against the Kenyans, both the elite marathoners and the class 8 girls running without shoes, this was certainly one of the most memorable athletic events of my life.

The Umoja Project’s approach has always been to “lead with relationships, follow with service.” I did not fully understand the importance of this until I saw firsthand the close friendships and mutual respect the Kenyan and American project staff has built with the communities over the last few years. Had I been scheduling the trip, I would have condensed all of our meetings and school visits into 10 days rather than three weeks. But it is in allowing time to just be a part of the community – to accept an invitation for tea, to watch the students dance and sing, to even run in a race on athletics day – that the real relationships are formed and a lasting impact is made.  And I am excited to say that Barandingo Primary School has invited me back to compete again in next year’s athletics day!

4x100 relay team

PTP, yeah you know me.

Today, I combined forces with one of my Indy favorites, Pete the Planner. I met Pete first as a financial adviser, but have to say that he has quickly become one of my favorite people. He’s real. He’s funny. He gives good advice. And his financial consulting is like nothing I have seen before.

He asked me to be a guest blogger and it was an offer I couldn’t refuse. I still talk about running, but this time, with a financial focus. As we all know, whether it’s running, jewelry-making, or falconry….our hobbies come at a cost.

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Treadmill Love – Guest Blog on Run Addicts

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Run Addicts – Guest Blog

Yesterday I submitted a guest blog to Run Addicts. They published it today! Have yourself a little read, won’t you?